STAY IN CHARGE!!!

She's sexy, she's elegant, she's so good-looking in that sexy-red gown. She's got everything you're searching for in a woman(of course, so does every single one of them) and obviously, she's independent! Right from the corner where you sit, you're staring at her. With some wild crazy movie playing in your head. You've gotta get her! Well....what are you waiting for??? Here are tips that are gonna keep you in charge; grab your suit brah, you're about to become a PLAYER!!!
#1: Look Good and neatly dressed:
       Girls have a strong attention when it comes to appearance. For you to get a ladies attention(which is a gateway), you must look good and always appear neatly dressed with a touch of nice fragrance. Put on clothes that are not way too big for your body. You need clothes that fit. This brings up the need to pay a visit to the gym with time.

#2: Don't be a clown:
 Some guys, in the bid to make a girl happy, turns around turning himself into a clown. You don't need to be a clown; clowns are for circus and not flirting! It's either she's laughing at your  jokes, or she's laughing at you!...don't seem desperate and don't try too hard to make her laugh

#3: Tease her:
This part could be  sensitive at times. why? That is cos' you could turn out to be a jerk on your bid to tease. there are several ways to tease a girl. You could give her a nickname(maybe from the way she acts or the way she smiles...stuffs like that). You could mock her voice. You could playfully play with stuffs she says. Think about it; teasing a girl goes a long way in flirting. Imagine teasing a girl you just met. You succeeded in breaking the "uncomfortable stage" in familiarity.

#4: Use you body language:

Once again, you don't be a clown when attracting girls. You are to use your BODY LANGUAGE in a way that provides congruence with what you are saying. One way to do this is as you are teasing her, establish physical contact in a way that shows her you are a guy who is not afraid to play around her.

Some ways to do this are...

• Playfully swatting her
• Pushing her away, only to pull her back into a hug
• Playing games like "hand slapping" and "thumb war"

The overall point here is to break the "touch" barrier by using humor while making her laugh simultaneously

#5: Act Nice:
Ladies love guys that would pull the chair out for them to sit, open the door-way for them to walk through....etc. whatever you do and However you do it, don't forget, the key is HUMOR.


Apply these rules properly, so that you can create an atmosphere that is fun and flirty which at the end works out for you.
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SHE DOES WISH YOU KNEW!!!!!

A girl/woman always wants to be in control of her life. She appreciates someone that gives her a chance to suggest or even decide, and more especially, that someone that accords her with respect. For girls/women, emotional thinking comes first and rational thinking comes next. But it is the other way round for men. It's quite difficult for a guy to notice a slightest change in the girl's/ladies' appearance except that particular change is quite obvious. But a girl/woman would notice a stain on the shirt, change of haircut or even your waxed arm too! A girl could seem uninterested in a conversation with a guy she admires, but as soon as the conversation ends, she would call up her friends and spread the news as to what happened in the conversation. Notice the blush on her face then! Here are some things a girl would always wish guys knew:
. All girls secretly love a guy who can sing.(MEGA-Turn-On)

. Just so you know, girls want to smell you from 10, 6, or even 2 feet away.

Girls HATE players!!!!

. Most girls love cudlles

We love it when you put your arm around us at the movies.(especially the scary ones)

We don't need you to be Superman. We just need you to be there.

Please, if you really need to talk about your size, use your guy friends, not us.

. Pretty much all girls like to talk about something, so feel free to call us.

.We LOVE suprises, that is , the good ones.

Don't ever try to impress us by cursing or fighing. It doesn't work; you just look like a jerk.

When you pick on the girl you like, she won't think your interested or cool. She'll just think that you're mean. (Ah the logic.. of girls...)

. Every girl wants to feel special, even if its just to you.

.Being able to make your girl laugh = MAJOR brownie points!

.Guitarists = sexy Pianists = sensitivty

We absolutly HATE it when you break a promise to us. It completely devastates us.

.Here's something that girls are tought: When a guy says that you're hot, he's looking at your body. When he says that you're pretty, he's looking at your face. When he says that you're beautiful, he's looking at your heart. Remember that when you complement a girl......

. Ask any girl... She'll have no idea what the hell a guy means when he says that she's "cute".

. We can tell when you aren't listening, and, yeah, it kind of pisses us off. If were boring you, at least have the decensy to tell us!

. When we say the we're cold, we either want you to come closer or give us your jacket. Tip: If you really want to impress your girl, hold her tight and put your jacket around her while you're still wearing it. Its amazingly romantic! (as long as you don't grope her)

. Hugs can mean more than kisses sometimes.

. If you wait for the perfect moment, the perfect momnet will pass you by. In other words, if you want to ask her out, just do it!

. We'd really appreciate it if you didn't hold the things we do during our time of the month against us. It isn't exactly our fault, and we aren't being ourselves.

.Please give us the same respect you would to any other human and look us in the eyes. (yes we do notice when your eyes wander)

.We want the same respect that you give to other guys, but we really don't want you to treat us like them...(chest bumbs are never ok)

.Never cheat!!! Girls know how to spread news fast so you don't just ruin one relationship, you prevent others from happening too.

. When you're on a date with a girl, keep your eyes on her face and off other girls' bodies. That's just rude.

.Not all girls are about money. The one who are give us all a bad name.

. It's weird when you take longer to get ready than we do....

.If you ask us nicely, we'll usually answer in the same way.

. It takes a special kind of stupid to forget birthdays.

. Not all women are bad drivers.

. Not all women are ditzes.

. Anything you say or do with
another girl that you don't want us to know is considered cheating.

. When you say you don't like it when we wear makeup, don't just leave it at that. It helps to tell us why.

. It absolutely floors us when you know our favorite color, shoe size, flower, T.V. show, movie, artist, etc. See, we aren't that hard to please.



. This one may seem weird. We love keeping your hoodies/jackets because: they remind us of you, they smell like you, and it makes us feel like you're there holding us even when you aren't.
. NEVER EVER HIT A GIRL!!!!!!!!! Even if she hits you first....it's just wrong.

. When you're dating a girl and you introduce her to your friends, you had better say that she's your girlfriend.

. When it comes to gifts, we'd prefer something that has meaning rather than something with a big pricetag.

. The best thing that you can be to any girl is her friend. Friendship always comes before any good romantic relationship.

. Have I metioned that we like respect?

All girls want to be told I LOVE YOU now and then and possibly whisper it in her ear when you are having a moment.

. Usually, when a girl is sarcastically mean to you, it means she's attracted to you, but she's afraid that she'll be showing too much.

. When you calm a girl down (and believe me, you will need to do this someday), try your hardest to make her laugh, but never make her feel stupid for being so worked up in the first place.

If you go through our purse, you probably won't like what you see. So please don't even bother going through it or you will get bitch slapped.

. Keep in mind that pretty much every girl has a group of guys(friends, brothers and her Daddy) who will beat the crap out of you if cross the line.

. Girls dont like show-offs. Just be yourself we'll like you better that way and if a girl dosent like the real you she's not worth your time.

. Face it. Girls really aren't impressed when you spend the whole day showing off your muscles...

. When shes upset hold her and tell her she'll be fine even if she says it wont, convince her it will be.

. Don't disrespect her in ANYWAY.

. Now and again flatter her with compliments.

. Also if shes gettin hurt in anyway stand up for her dont stand and watch her get her shes your girlfriend for fudge sake!!


. Don't think that just because you didn't tell us we are never going to find out.

Our friends know EVERYTHING.

. EVERYTHING said to our friends will be told to us. Garranteed.

No matter what we say, we hate your ex-girlfriend.

We check our phones every hour to see if you have replied to our texts, then worry if you haven't.

The fact you might leave us for another girl keeps us up at night.

. When we're not talking to you on MSN, we're actually waiting for you to talk to us (in a non-snobby way, we want to see if you still care enough to talk to us).

. When we act sad, we want you to hug us.

. Our favourite part of the MSN convo is at the end when you say good bye, because that's the part you say you love us.

. We actually freak out on what to do during holidays like Valentines Day.

. We don't care what our friends think of you, but we do care what your friends think of us.

Yes, you might be the reason we failed that Maths test.

We are very, very scared of scaring you away.

. We don't care about what we talk about, just as long as we have your attention for a few minutes.

. Of course, we do believe the crap we read in magazines.

We have mood swings. Get over it.

. Everytime you're around other girls, we worry they are better than us.

. We don't want to hear how cool your ex-girlfriend/neighbour/best gal friend is.

. Movies like 'He's Just Not That Into You' depress us.

. We will move mountains on our timetable if it means seeing you.

. We compare every other guy to you, and you always come out best.

. We hate it when you go to discos without us.

We hate feeling as if we are like any other girl.

. Don't brag about other girls liking you, it just makes us insecure.

. When we say everything is 'fine', it generally means everything is absolutely horrible and we are on the brink of falling to pieces.

. Don't just say 'ok' when we say we don't want to talk about it.

. If you want to know something about us, ask our best friend.

. If you do not hug us, we will not kiss you.

. We think you are the best guy in the world.

We.Will.Kill.You.If.We.See.You.Slow.Dancing.With.Another.Girl.Without.Telling.Us.

We really do want you to stick up for us.

. Compliments. We love them.

. Be on time. We will think you don't care if you're not on time at a certain place.

Whether you say (L) or luv or love does matter.

. We don't care if you couldn't come on that date because of the most embarrassing reason in the world, just don't lie to us.

. We like cuddling up to you so let us.

. Silent Treatment + Short Answers + Not Smiling or Laughing + Evil Looks = YOU DID SOMETHING WRONG.

. You will be classed in our 'Hate' list if you forget our birthday.

. Do not ask what's wrong. We'll never tell you we just want you to cuddle us.

. You need to tell us what you think of us, we don't make assumptions (apart from 'OMG HE'S GONE OFF ME HASN'T HE?!')

. Telling us that we are pretty will mean absolute LOADS.

. Do not make fun of us unless we are in a good mood. As insecure as girls go, we take these things very seriously.

If you do end up doing Number 42, you just have to hope we aren't in a bad mood.

. Saying something sweet MIGHT get you off the hook. Doing something sweet will ALWAYS get you off the hook.

. We never forget things. Ever.

We over-analyze everything.
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We over-react to everything.
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When we are mad at you, we aren't actually mad at you we just want you to apologize so we can start showing we like you again.

Please don't stand 384931491329403 feet away from us. Even if we are scary.

. Please acknowledge that when we are online when you sign in, we probably have waited ages for you to come online so please make it worthwhile.

. We do not care if 50 000 other guys declared their love for us if you never do it none of it matters.

. We don't like being used.

. We like it when you do un-expected nice things.

We usually don't let just any guy make us cry, so if you make us cry, damnnn you must have done something bad...

. This is the way it works: You don't give us any attention, we dump you. It is NOT: You don't give us any attention, we chase after you. Deal with it.

We like it when you are protective of us. It makes us feel special.

. Unless she is a moronic idiot, a girl who truly loves you will love you for a long, long time.

. When we come back from a holiday and brag about how awesome it was, during the entire time there we were probably thinking about you. A lot.

. No matter where we are or what we are doing, we really want you to hold our hand.

And please for the love of god shut up about how fit other girls are. You know we like you and the fact you do this despite you knowing how we feel is just evil.

When you break her heart, the pain never really goes away.

When she misses you, she's hurting inside.

When she says it's over, she still wants you to be hers.

When she walks away from you mad, follow her.

When she stares at your mouth, kiss her.

When she pushes or hits you, grab her tight & don't let her go.
When she starts cursing at you, kiss her and tell her you love her.

When she ignores you, give her your attention.

When you see her at her worst, tell her she's beautiful.

When you see her crying, just hold her and don't say a word.

When you see her walking, sneak up and hug her waist from behind.

When she's scared, protect her.

When she lays her head on your shoulder, tilt her head up and kiss her.

When she steals your favourite jacket, let her keep it and sleep with it for a night.

When she teases you, tease her back and make her laugh.

When she doesn't answer for a long time, reassure her that everything is okay.

When she looks at you with doubt, back yourself up with the truth.

When she says that she likes you, she really does more than you could understand.

When she grabs your hands, hold hers and play with her fingers.

When she bumps into you, bump into her back and make her laugh.

When she tells you a secret, keep it safe and untold.

When she looks at you in your eyes, don’t look away until she does.

Stay on the phone with her even if she’s not saying anything.

Don't let her have the last word.

Don't call her hot, but gorgeous or beautiful is so much better.

Say you love her more than she could ever love you.

Argue that she is the best girl ever.

When she's mad, hug her tight and don't let go.

When she says she's OK, don’t believe it, talk to her about it, because 10 yrs later she'll still remember it.

Call her at 12:00am on special occasions to tell her you love her.

Call her before you sleep and after you wake up.
Treat her like she's all that matters to you.
Don't ignore her when she's out with you and your friends.

Stay up all night with her when she's sick.

Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think its stupid.

Let her into your world.

Let her wear your clothes.

When she's bored and sad, hang out with her

Let her know she's important.

Kiss her in the pouring rain.

When she runs up at you crying, the first thing you say is; "Who's ass am I kicking today baby?"

After she reads this, she hopes one day you'd read it too.

i. . Do not cheat on a girl. We girls talk, we WILL know, and we WILL find out, and we WILL dump you!

. Be aware of all your girlfriends’ guy friends, brothers, fathers, or anything. They are protective. Every single male friend we have will kick your ass if you end up hurting her.

. Never ever miss an opportunity to tell her that she’s beautiful. We girls love that.

. If she slapped you hard, you probably deserved it.

. Do not be afraid of holding her. If she’s going out with you in the first place, it’s obvious that she likes you and wants to be in your arms.

. Every girl should eventually get three things from her boyfriend -- a stuffed animal, one of his sweatshirts or hoodie’s, and a really pretty piece of jewelry.


. Make sure she gets home safely as often as you can. If you're dropping her off, walk her to the door. If you aren't dropping her off, call to be sure she's home safely. We think that’s really cute and sweet.

. If a guy is bothering your girlfriend, it is your right to beat the sh!t out of him.

. If you're talking to a female friend of yours, pull your girlfriend closer. It’ll make her feel secure that you love her more than the other girl.

. Never ever slap her, even if it's just in a joking way. Even if she swats you first, and says, "Oh, you're so dumb" or something, never make any gestures back.

. Go along with her to a chick flick once in a while. She doesn't care whether you enjoy it or not, it just matters that you went with her.

. If you're officially dating, and you're introducing her to your friends, you'd better damn well introduce her as your girlfriend. Or else.

. Girls are fragile. Even if you're play fighting/wrestling, be very gentle. Let her win once in a while.

. Memorize your girlfriend’s birthday. You forget her birthday and you're basically screwed for life. Not gonna lie.

Don't drench yourself in the cologne, but smell good.

. You don’t have to spend a million dollars on the Birthday/Christmas/Valentine gift. It doesn't have to be expensive, or cost anything but it has to be meaningful.

. Don’t ever lie to us; we always find out.

. Don’t say you understand when you don’t. That’s bad.

. Remember: Girls are pretty, but yours is the Prettiest!

. Saying something sweet might get you off the hook; but doing something sweet will always get you off the hook.

. Size does matter, but only to hoes; not girls that want relationships.

. No matter what you say, your ex-girlfriend is a hoe. Don’t bother trying to convince us otherwise, that is a bad idea

. It’s good to be sensitive, to a point.

. If you did something wrong, apologize. Even if you didn’t, do it anyway.

. You did something bad. I seem cool with it. I'm not. (See directly above.)

We are self-conscious by nature; we can’t help it. Let it be.

. We don’t shave our legs every day so just get over it.

. Shave your face, no matter how cool you think your goatee or beard or mustache looks, we probably hate it. We like you clean shaven.

. Show off a little, we think it’s cute.

. You are our boyfriend, our man, our protector, whether you know it or not, you are; act like it.

. You are cute in raglan-sleeved T-shirts (two-toned baseball undershirts).

We love it when you hug us from behind and whisper in our ear.

. "Fine" is NEVER an appropriate response when I ask you how I look.

Most of the time when I fantasize, it's about you. Don’t obsess over that.

I expect you to call me. If you don’t, you go down.

. I'm more forgiving of you than I really should be. Don’t you dare take advantage of that.

. When I compare my flabby tummy to a kangaroo pouch, say nothing.

. You look hot in hooded clothing items. Always.

. You should never tell a girl what to do. Ever.

Any decent man will ask a girl out to her face. I mean; if you aren’t man enough to ask us out to our face, who says youre gonna be man enough to our boyfriend at all.

. Girls are very impressed when you ask them for advice. Unless its about another girl.

. I'm unimpressed with a man who doesn't take the lead.

. When in doubt, go with the shirt that matches your eye color.

You're sexy when you're shaving, fixing things, wearing a white T-shirt and jeans, driving, eating a peach, holding a baby.

. Girls need to hear how you feel about them. Often. Tell her now.

. A girl wants to be the best thing that ever happened to you--and for you to recognize this and tell her.

. If she’s not feeling loved, she will start looking....

. We like it when you tell us what you're thinking, even if you don't know yourself. It’s cute.

. It's cheating as soon as you're doing something with her that you wouldn't want me to see, hear, read...

For the record: I'd rather you break up with me than cheat.

. We can fall in love with you without really knowing you, if you are an @ss, we will find out, and we will get over it. Fast. Don't ruin it.

. You like her, make a move. Don’t just sit there, you will fail, and you won’t get her.

. Guys who play sports are hot. They build muscle, and no matter what we will be at all of your games.

. When you compliment us, we aren't sure how to accept the compliment without leading you on or reject the compliment without hurting you. So just bear with us here.

. WE HATE BEING LED ON! If you think it's bad being led on by a girl, try being led on by a guy.

We like it when guys are willing to have an actual relationship, not just a one-night stand. Most girls don't like pimps or players, just guys who like ONE girl only.

. But don't be obssessive. Major turn-off.

. Call sometimes, just to say hi, not for a certain reason. When we see your number on caller ID, our heart always skips a beat. Try calling just to say good night, or good morning, its soo adorable!

. BE HONEST!

. Don't ONLY tell us what we want to hear. We HATE that.

. At sleepovers, if you wonder what we talk about, quit worrying. It really is only you.

. If you catch us staring, it is most likely because we're spacing out, not because we really stare at you. Unless we smile when you notice. Then you either look really hot, or we like you.

. We like it when you hold us when we're crying. It's good to feel loved and safe.
. Don't go to our friends to talk about us. Come straight to us.

. Don't tell us you love us unless you are positive you mean it. If we don't say it back, it's just that we really want to mean it when we say it. Don't say it right away, then it shows lack of commitment.

. We like our hands to be held and our waists to be touched.

. We like you to kiss our hand and cheeks and forehead (esp. forehead!!), not just shove your tongue down our throats. We do like to breathe.

. We like it when you're tender, but don't lose your masculinity.

. Do chivalrous things when we least expect it (ex. holding doors for us).

As surprising as it may be, while guys might actually look at personality, the first thing girls look at tends to be looks. We're not going to see you and think, 'I wonder what his personality is like!' Terrible, but true.

. If we love you, and youre hurt on the basketball court, rolling on the floor in pain; we’re hurting more just watching you.

. We LOVE it when you get nervous around us. It's adorable! Don't think you have to be Mr. Cool Guy all the time.

. Don't play hard to get. We’ll get bored and move on.

If you don't call us, then we will spend hours thinking about why you never called, and we will waste a lot of time thinking about it, eventually coming to the conclusion that we don't like you anymore.

We lost interest quickly if you lead us on but never take action.

. We might seem to flirt a lot, but a girl always thinks about the one guy she really likes right before she falls asleep.

(77). When a girl likes a guy, she subconsciously gives him a song that makes her think of him every time she hears it.

. If guys do the same as girls do in #77, tell her what song reminds you of her.

Randomly compliment girls in conversations. If you're talking about sports, be like "Oh, by the way, that shirt really made your eyes look green today." It totally throws us off, and we love it.

. Ask us about how we're doing once in a while, and at least pretend to be interested.

. If we're not talking to you, we secretly want you to talk to us first.

. Play with our hair without being like a gay hairstylist.

. We get really happy when you show any sign of interest. Don't just do it and then never do it again. Bad bad bad…

. Keep up the conversation on IM and phones and in person! Don't be awkward. That’s bad.

. We will always feel bad if we don't like you back. Not all girls are bitches, no matter what you may think. We hate to reject you.

. ok, so some girls are bitches and they like rejecting boys, but the people who wrote this group are not. better?

. If we say "Let's just be friends", we really mean it. Don't keep trying to pursue us, and don't say ok and then ignore us. That's just mean and horrible.

. It's adorable when a best guy friend who a girl has thought about liking confesses he likes her.

. If you’re single, find the one girl who’s always there on the sidelines at your football game, or at each of your concerts, all your baseball games. She loves you. Her excuse may be that she’s there for her brother, but she’s really there for you.

. After you find that girl, smile at her once in a while, it’ll mean the world to her.

. Get to know her, you’ll make her year first of all, and maybe, just maybe, you’ll end up liking her.

. Not all blondes are b!tches. Some are cool.

Not all blondes are sluts. Some have morals.

. In your mind, give every girl a chance. Each one deserves at least one.

. Girls fantasize too, its just not always about sex.

. We girls give you guys code names so that you don’t know that we’re talking about you. :]

. If you’re jealous, it may suck for you, but we think it’s attractive if you really care that much.

. If a girl blushes when you talk to her, she either likes you or she's embarrassed by what you're saying.

. Girls don’t really write your name on a piece of paper a million times if they like you, that’s a myth…… sometimes

. If a girl really likes you, just seeing you will make her day.

. Even if you aren’t all that cute, and we like you, we think you’re hot. Don’t take advantage of that, take pride in that.

. Every time you smile at us, it may mean only a little to you, but it means the world to us. Don't take the little things for granted.
good luck guys!!!...buckle up

SIGNS THAT WILL TELL IF THERE'S STILL LOVE

So many people would say that it doesn't exist. Some would say it does, but in the 'IMAGINATION WORLD'...while others are still very scared of it, because of stories from victims of what we call LUST which is mostly mistaken for LOVE amongst youths! Here's what it is: Lust is desire that is stimulated by a superficial impression of the object of passion with a selfish consideration in mind. On this basis, lust is not taking an interest in someone for their own sake, but mostly in order to gain pleasure of some sort from that person.

In contrast, love is when the desire towards a person is fully mediated by a consciousness of the importance of the person and when attention is given in actions towards this person with the appreciation of his or her inherent worth as the driving motivation.
The truth of the matter remains that it does! yes...it does. To avoid getting it all tangled up, here are some signs that can tell if truly there is LOVE, enjoy!


1. Strength. A person who truly loves someone put all his might to the one he loves. If you notice that your guy or girl suddenly feels weak (or colloquially feels like dying) when you have done something to hurt him or her, then it’s an indication that your partner loves you and has placed all his power on you.
2. Joy. A man who falls in love transfers his happiness to the happiness of another. In other words, your true happiness is his priority, even if it means sacrificing his own happiness. So if your partner got a 50,000 naira bonus and spend it by buying you a nice necklace you’ve been wanting instead of acquiring the gadget he wanted to have this month, then your partner is really falling in love with you.
3. Enthusiasm. Let’s admit it! When we love someone, we are very interested in them. If your guy historically hates to watch romantic and crying movies, but enjoys when he watch one of those kind of movies with you at the theater, then it’s a sign that you can turn his mode and interest – he loves you.
4. Realized dream. Dreaming someone doesn’t absolutely means loving someone. But if you consider a person as your dream came true, then it’s a different story. If your partner is a sleeper and a dreamer, but can hardly close his own eyes to sleep when your beside him, and when he enjoys staring at you while you are sleep, then it could be a sign that he don’t need to dream anymore – because his dream (you) has already come into reality. He is happy, contented and really loves you.
5. Fear. When we love somebody, we serve him. Likewise, when we serve somebody, we fear him. What does this means? This means that you can identify a person if he indeed loves you if he is afraid to do anything that will destroy your relationship with him. If someone really loves you, he has fear that creates his care for you.
6. Transformation. This means exiting from the bad world and saying hello to the realm of love and kindness. True love brings and binds all the good virtues of a person, such as humility, patience, honesty, gentleness, peacefulness and self-control. If you observe that your sweetheart starts quitting smoking, begins cleaning his messy room and losing interest in going to nightclubs and wild parties, then it could be an excellent symptom that your dear has a real love for you.
7. Future. Does he or she keeps on talking about his or her plans for the two of you, including your future children? Does your honey really discussing real and attainable plans? Is he already executing the initial steps and procedures to realize those plans? If your answers to those questions are affirmative, then you are blessed to have him.
8. Sight. People can feel affection at first sight. But does it mean we should only have love at first sight? If your partner is always looking at you like it was always love at first sight for him, then you are not just the apple of his eyes, but also the love of his heart.
9. Time. Time is gold because it is so precious that when lost, it never be found again. That is why you can recognize someone who is really in love when he can give you his precious time. If your boyfriend or girlfriend is always telling you on the phone that he or she always misses you but never cares to visit you, then it could be a red flag for words without means. But if he can cancel his hectic schedules just to see you, then you are a more precious gem to him – more valuable than gold.
10. Mystery. It’s your birthday, so he has given you a presence. Then it’s your third year anniversary, so he bought you a diamond ring, a bunch of red roses, and brought you in the most quixotic restaurant in town for a romantic dinner. That’s good that he has a great memory to remember your special dates in the calendar. Alas, this is not a definite sign that he truly loves you, especially when he becomes bitter on the ordinary days. Have you experienced moments when your husband gives you your most favorite chocolates, some fresh flowers, embrace you and tell you sweetly that he loves you? And you wonder why he did that since it is neither your birthday nor it is Valentine’s Day? Well, it maybe a mystery but it is the mystery of love. People who truthfully love someone automatically do the feat of love anywhere and in anytime.
11. Compromise. Pride, selfishness and greed are all indications of the absence of love. But sometimes we are contaminated by these tough forces of evil. Here, true love is shown when we can compromise these things and instead turn to the rebuke of humility, selflessness and kindness. If your wife admits her mistake and shallow her pride to preserve your relationship in harmony and in peace, then you are fortunate to have her as a loving wife. Remember that pride is different from honor, for the first may defend what is wrong and the latter only defends what is right.
12. Mixture. Finally, you can tell that your partner really loves you if he loves to be part of your family. If he is excited to meet your parents, friends and even your old classmates; and if he is also keen to introduce you to his parents and buddies, then it is a great sign that your partner is seriously in love with you.
Now, does your partner have any or all of the signs above? If yes, then that’s great! But why not also assess yourself if you are also a partner who really loves him or her? Don’t forget that you can always improve yourself from a good lover to a great lover.
Love is a good thing and would still be, so if you are in it, DON'T LOSE IT..