Yeah,... we work very hard sometimes to make our 'love-life' with our partner 'ever-blazing', there are yet little things which can take things from good to bad. Valentine's day is by the corner, and you wanna make the best out of it. Here is a list of dos and donts:1. Don't forget.
2. Don't buy kitchen appliances. Valentine's Day is supposed to be a little extravagant. A new blender is not—I repeat, is not—romantic. Whatever gift you choose should be nice and out of the ordinary.
3. Don't do the same thing you did last year.
4. Don't give her lingerie. . You can get the wrong size, which is a big problem. You can get the wrong color. But most importantly, when guys give lingerie they often have one thought in mind, and giving lingerie can really backfire. Just resist the temptation and be a little more creative.
5. Don't have unrealistic expectations.
6. Don't overspend.
7. Don't talk about an ex..
8. Don't just give her a generic card. Add a note about how much you love her, how much she means to you, and any other positive feelings you have. The personal part is what is romantic to her, not how much lace is on the card or how much you spent on it.
9. Don't do guy stuff.
10. Don't spend the night online.
11. Send a gift to work.
12. Make a homemade Valentine Cards.
13. Cook for her.Breakfast in bed, or cooking a romantic dinner for two can be fun for you and let her know you were willing to go the extra mile.
14. Remember romance. That means taking the time to do the little extras like dressing up for your dinner out, leaving little love notes around, or being on time for your commitments.
15. Turn off the electronics. Turn off the phone, the Palm or Blackberry, and focus your attention on your significant other.
16. Write her a love letter. TIn your own handwriting, tell her what she really means to you. Tell her why you would choose her all over again if you had to. She'll keep that letter as a cherished part of her life.
17. Watch a chick flick. Sure, you'd rather be watching the latest 007 film or WWF Smackdown, but she'll appreciate you sitting through a romantic movie.
18. Offer her a massage.
19. Consider spreading gifts throughout the day.
20. Just relax. While I know these ideas sound like a lot of work, it is important to not overdo it. Don't try to cram too much into the day or into the evening. A leisurely pace is an important component of making Valentine's Day great for your woman.